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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-29 13:36:51
ID: 66876
In response to a confession. Yes, the "I feel attacked" was a joke. But FTR I'm allowed to not like my fat roll. ;P
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-29 04:38:58
ID: 66871
My husband wanted us to take the Love Languages test at the suggestion of his best friend - who he apparently complains to about our relationship. I worked hard on his top two (quality time and physical touch), but kind of gave up when he made NO effort on mine (words of affirmation and acts of service). He still thinks that "giving gifts" is what I want. He knows I had an abusive childhood where my mother bought me expensive gifts after a beating, out of guilt - so gifts mean nothing to me. Telling me you appreciate me and helping me with things around the house when I get overwhelmed - instead of sulking when something's not done - is what I need. Yet he'll complain that I'm not catering to HIS love languages. This marriage sucks!
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-28 22:53:55
ID: 66870
In response to a confession. It's called "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. It's on Amazon and there's a website where you can take the quiz to find yours.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-28 20:38:08
ID: 66866
In response to a confession. 99% of all people have a fat roll when they sit down. Even skinny and young ones. Who cares? I hope you are kidding about feeling attacked. It sounds like your dh was joking aroung anyway.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-28 18:41:36
ID: 66862
In response to a confession. What’s the name of this book?
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-27 23:40:21
ID: 66853
I finally realized that DH and I do not have the same love languages and talked to my therapist about it. She suggested he read the book and he actually did. He is starting to realize that acts of service and gifts are my languages while I am realizing that physical affection and quality time are his. It's definitely helping us connect more. I'd recommend reading the book; it's pretty interesting.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-25 22:02:39
ID: 66838
In response to a confession. OMG. One day H came into the bathroom and remarked at all of the new face creams and gadgets I had. I said, "Well, I'm 50 now and I'm...concerned." in a joking tone. He said, "You're fighting a losing battle." What a shitty comment from a man who is older than me by only a month, but is consistently mistaken as my father when we're out.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-25 20:47:43
ID: 66837
I was sitting on the bed with my shirt lifted up so DH could put icy hot on my back. I looked down and noticed a fat roll while I was sitting there. I got upset and said When the hell did THIS happen? You know what that A-hole told me? He told me I'm pushing 50 and I should just give in to the fat roll. I feel attacked.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-23 00:13:41
ID: 66820
In response to a confession. Good for you for following through and filing. I would think getting served with papers would be an eye opener. If not then he's truly delusional.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-22 18:56:08
ID: 66804
Boyfriend who is 54 years old has a job interview at a cryo place. He just got a dollar raise where he's at now. I'm skeptical and feeling insecure because it might mean he has to travel in the future. His friend who's in his 30's works there and loves it. I want my boyfriend to look at city, county and state jobs. He always said he wouldn't take a job where he has to work on the weekends or out of town. His current job is a 10 minute bike ride away from our home. He'd have to commute about 25 minutes to and from new job. It's just me and my insecurities I guess. We'll see what happens.
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