Posted by: anonymous
2022-06-04 02:41:34
ID: 68372
44 years ago he said ‘you’ll never amount to anything stout me’ as I was walking out the door. Bought my first house at 23, a new car at 24, and at 25 met the love of my life and have a happy life ever since. Moral of my story: if he tells you you’ll never make it, laugh at the son of a bitch.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-29 14:57:40
ID: 68367
The divorce is final, and I'm back on the dating scene after almost 20 years. I have no interest in annything other than casual relationships right now, but after a sexless marriage, I was looking for to that part. But, um, is it just me, or have penises gotten smaller in 20 years? It's not like my DH was the only guy I've been with, so I have some experience to compare to. I've hooked up with guys I was crazy attracted to, only to be wildly disappointed when they drop their drawers.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-21 22:22:03
ID: 68352
In our younger years DH had a serious drinking problem. He got it under control and hasn’t had any issues in 20+ years. Last night we had a few couples over on the deck, and he started drinking early. At the end of the night six people staggered home and DH couldn’t get in the house without help. He immediately passed out then peed the bed. Yes, it’s the first time in 20+ years, but my fight or flight gene is telling me to fly.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-18 04:55:41
ID: 68349
I try not to text friends out the blue for favors, but had to tonight with a timely favor. Not surprisingly two came through in a really big way! I am so blessed to have met them through work and it's been years now. Love ya, K&D!
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-12 23:20:44
ID: 68346
In response to a confession. Add me to the my-husband-is-useless club. He thinks he's the most awesome husband ever because he'll pick up the kids if I ask, and he'll unload the dishwasher every once in a while. (eyeroll). Working on my exit plan too.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-08 12:16:13
ID: 68340
In response to a confession. I'm in the same boat. Married to a useless man. I no longer love him and want out of this marriage. Thanks to the current economical climate, it'll take me a little longer than 2 years to be able to leave, but I'm working on it. Cheers to a brighter future!
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-07 02:44:50
ID: 68339
In response to a confession. We had a great lunch! It felt like old times again and we both apologized. I feel relieved and happy.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-05-01 14:36:50
ID: 68335
I sat down and actually ran all the numbers and did all the math. 2 years. I'll be able to leave my husband in 2 years. It's not an abusive situation or anything, so I'm not in danger. He's just well, a man. I'm tired of doing everything. He's not a bad person. But he's basically just here. Taking up space. A walking paycheck. He contributes nothing else. He doesn't engage with anyone, including the kids. I'm done. My youngest will leave for college, and I'll leave to start a new life. He'll be devastated, but oh well. Been telling him this for 20 years and he's done absolutely nothing to change it. I have 2 daughters and we're very close. They both plan on college out of state near my family (totally their choice). I'll settle near them. We'll live happily ever after without him.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-04-26 03:55:24
ID: 68322
I reached out to an old friend after a big fight we had several months ago. I thought she would say no, but she's open to meeting up. This is progress. Hope we can apologize and move on. I could use a friend right now.
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Posted by: anonymous
2022-04-10 23:54:33
ID: 68296
Well, I made it 3 days post op. DH was so attentive and didn't want me to lift a finger. This morning he woke up with a GD cold and has acted like it's the end. He coughed so decided he needed a cig. His nose was stuffed up so he took a Benadryl and slept for three hours. Then he asked if I'd make him sloppy jo's and mac 'n cheese (homemade of course) for dinner. So it took me longer than usual (did I mention I had bariatric surgery 3 days ago?), but I got it done. Kitchen cleaned, pain pill on board, and I told him his dinner was ready. "I'm just not hungry. I'm too sick to eat." I threw it all away, started the dishwasher and told him that he is officially on his own. I prepare my meals; he prepares his. I'm not allowed to drive yet or I'd be outta here!
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