DH has made a friend a few years ago that I'm not really fond of. Nothing terrible, they are just a bit annoying, and we have never connected. Friend is having a hard time right now with being alone during Covid, and insisting on more and more of DH's time (which DH is happy to give) while they deal with mental health issues. In the meantime, I've been through an increasingly stressful time for other reasons, and I'm at the point where I have stopped eating and sleeping. Yesterday, the friend said something asshole-ish to me on text, and I told DH I couldn't deal anymore. I said DH needs to make a decision on who comes first, me or the friend. I honestly didn't know which way he would go, but he didn't hesitate to pick me. I'm pleasantly surprised.