Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-18 22:46:58
ID: 66996
I asked DH for a divorce and he got so angry. He said he "earned all our money" and won't give me half even though we're a communal property state and I would be entitled to half the assets. I'm halfway tempted to just take a huge withdrawal from his checking account (the moron keeps over $100K in there) and just bounce. I've had it up to here with his laziness and cockiness and how shitty he treats me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-13 16:55:58
ID: 66974
My ex used to tell everyone how controlling I was. The truth is that I let him be himself, he could hang out with whoever whenever, I didn't care. I complained about him never cleaning anything, but I never demanded or forced him to clean. He spent whatever he wanted while I juggled what bills would be late. His current wife is controlling, she doesn't let him be on any loans or their mortgage, everything (including stuff he pays for) is in her name cuz if they divorce, she can take it all. (her words) He has to give her a certain amount every payday before he can spend freely. She wants him with her all the time, if he wants to hang out with friends, she invites herself. She makes the house rules, and he follows them. It just irks me that he acted like I was controlling when I wasn't, but now he's fine with someone who actually is controlling but doesn't think she is. She brags to me about how she controls him and laughs.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-12 02:21:30
ID: 66969
We broke up 3 years ago and he's been married for less than year. That was quick, but I guess I needed to see those photos to purge and finally let go.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-11 19:40:13
ID: 66965
In response to a confession. Wow, that's awful. Even my 8 and 10 yo can figure out to empty a full trash can. What does he do all day then? Hopefully taking care of kids, although he doesn't seem capable of that. Unless he has a mental disorder/disability, I wouldn't put up with that shit, esp if I'm at work all day. Nothing worse than a useless dh.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-10 23:31:17
ID: 66959
DH has always helped me out and done whatever I ask him to do around the house. However, I hate asking him to help because I figure he should see an overflowing trash can and know to empty it, or see the dishwasher's full and clean and go unload it. Stuff like that. It's fairly exhausting to come home after work to see my DH has done nothing all day and instead asks me if he should help me out. I want to not have to delegate.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-09 17:59:09
ID: 66950
In response to a confession. That would be a red flag to me. I've never been on a date in my entire life where the guy paid cash.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-06 02:22:03
ID: 66921
In response to a confession. Nah, I don't think so. I still like to pay cash a lot of the time too. Just because I like to know that I'm paying it off right then and there. Not putting it on a credit card, debit, etc. Now if he's paying in all $1's, that might be another story... Lol
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Posted by: Stormyweather
2021-04-05 23:41:29
ID: 66919
Got a question for y'all. I met someone on line and we have been out 3 times. All very nice, I enjoyed myself and was comfortable. Usually, or at least in the past, I have spent too much time wondering if they liked me, etc. I have google stalked him and everything he says checks out. He says he's divorced and the limited info we have shared is plausible, normal. we text regularly. My question is, on each date he paid cash for everything. is this a red flag?
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-05 22:45:30
ID: 66917
Just for fun I went on a singles website to see what kind of men are out there. It just reinforces it in my head that I will never, EVER get married ever again.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-05 22:41:35
ID: 66915
In response to a confession. I am like this too...very much a people-pleaser. I always felt like I wasn't good enough and felt I had to earn people's liking me. So I was always very task oriented as my mom seemed to appreciate it when I did stuff for her around the house. Now, I always feel like people are going to hate me unless I do a lot for them and am "useful" to them somehow. I'm also working on it with a therapist but one thing she has helped me realize is that people truly do value your inherent presence. I know it's hard to wrap your head around but it's true *hugs*.
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