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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-20 23:45:47
ID: 66806
I found out that my dad, who never comes to visit me 1 and 1/2 hours away, goes down to another state 2 times a month at least to visit with his new wife's family. It's at least a 3 to 4 hour drive and he makes sure he goes with her every other weekend. This hurts my feelings like you would not believe. Guess I'm not special enough to come visit.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-16 01:20:30
ID: 66713
In response to a confession. My husband is a feminist. He was raised in the deep south and finds his racist family abhorrent. He works hard. He prioritizes our marriage. He's funny as hell. He fixes stuff. He tells me I'm beautiful when I know God damn well I look like a gremlin. He loves cats and volunteers with a community cats program. He doesn't spend money on dumb shit. We set goals together and work towards them. He accepts me for me. He isn't perfect, though. Sometimes, he farts in bed. But, until they create a men without anuses, he'll do.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-16 01:19:26
ID: 66746
I don't know how he can love me and say I'm beautiful on a daily basis. I hate myself most of the time.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-16 01:19:07
ID: 66755
I don't know what to do with myself. I feel no joy in life. I just work and come home. I need to walk, exercise and do stuff for me, but I don't know how. And I don't want to count on my boyfriend for my whole happiness.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-13 20:57:57
ID: 66781
I started therapy again and I told my therapist about how my dad has basically started ignoring us entirely now that he remarried. Along with my sister ignoring all my phone calls and texts and my aunt not wanting to see me until my uncle can get the COVID vaccine, I feel so horribly alone right now and it's making me feel like there's something fundamentally wrong with me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-06 22:31:01
ID: 66751
Don't date a single father. Just don't, it is not worth it. I just dodged a bullet. He came right out and said he needs someone to move in and help him with money because he "has to pay a lot for the kids" and they need a stepmother.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-02-28 21:47:12
ID: 66729
You do realize that not everyone can just "make their life better", right? Sometimes circumstances just suck and you do what you can. People can fix what they can control but some things in life are beyond your control and you just have to deal. Being nicer to people is one of those things you can control and probably makes your life feel less sucky. I know it does for me; any time I get out of my own head and self pity, I feel better about my life in general.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-02-26 23:49:41
ID: 66722
I love my DH. I really do. But why in the hell does he suck at grilling meat? I’m on low carb and he eats what he wants. So he wanted to grill burgers. I’ve asked him hundreds of times to not smash them down or incinerate them. He has such a fear of seeing bloody meat that he cooks the taste out of it, but every freaking time he promises he won’t. Tonight he brought in black burgers that were gray on he inside. Told me he cooked mine on the ‘cool’ side. I called BS. He had a full meal with Mac and cheese, slaw and those burned burgers. I had cottage cheese and sliced tomatoes. I will not do the grilling myself. I’m sick of doing stuff because he’s inept. And I’m hangry!
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-02-26 12:45:08
ID: 66719
How many times am I gonna have to tell my H that I want a divorce? I broke the news to him 3 weeks ago but for the past 2 weeks he's been acting like nothing ever happened. Business as usual. He even wants to plan something for my bday next month. No. I want to get the ball rolling on this divorce process so we can move on with our lives. And yes, I know I could file on my own, but I want to have a discussion beforehand & come to a mutual agreement on division of our assets (we have no kids). I can't do this if he continues to be in deep denial. I don't want a messy, contested, expensive divorce.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-02-22 21:38:13
ID: 66702
Why do you think your dh is a good guy? Just because he doesn't hit you or cheat on you doesn't mean he's a great catch! Open your eyes, you could do waaaay better.
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